"It's the poooower of love!" (Huey Lewis and the News) And by that I don't mean contrived love as per the Law which says "Hey. All you do is love the non-Christian." I mean love as per the Gospel in which we see ourselves as prodigals in the midst of a famine of our own making but totally loved in Christ. That outlook can only be created by God (by the theology of the cross) and it spills out "unawares" to our fellow sufferers.